A Birth That Healed: Gabriel’s Birth Story

Victoria-Marie
6 min readOct 25, 2022

“The premise that birthing, by nature, had to be a painful ordeal was totally unacceptable to me. I could not believe that a God who had created the body with such perfection could have designed a system of procreation that was flawed.” — Marie Mongan in “HypnoBirthing: The Mongan Method”

A photo of me and Gabriel, just two hours after birth.

A photo of me and Gabriel, just 2 hours after birth. I will never forget a remark from a dear friend when she received the photo: “Wow, hypnobirthing is even more effective than SK2 Serum!”

When I found out I was pregnant, I was determined to have a very different experience from my first birth. I wanted to be able to be a good mother to my toddler and my newborn baby, and thus sought out all ways possible to have a birth that was devoid of trauma — no C-Section, as little pain as possible, and a birth that would allow a quick recovery. My quest to do so led me to discover HypnoBirthing. I had never heard of HypnoBirthing ever. All social circles that involved mothers celebrated and championed the wonders of an epidural — and unfortunately for me, an epidural failed to be any sort of relief for me and I believe actually became a major factor that led to my emergency C-Section with my firstborn, as I developed a high fever and the baby’s heartbeat started to drop.

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Victoria-Marie

Linguist. Writer. Mum. Currently navigating life with intense sleep deprivation, and learning how to still do what I love - teaching and parenting.